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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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HakunaKhunzSenior Contributor

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Oh really?? Thankyou! I'm quite lost at the moment. My son has 4 molars coming through, fighting an ear infection topped with isolation to covid19.. my boyfriend and I just split but got back together.. I'm all over the place. And my mum and best friend have txt me like twice in the last 2 months to see if I'm ok..

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that sounds very tough indeed! @HakunaKhunz

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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@HakunaKhunz

Yes, you have a lot going on in your life. It seems like some of your supports are lacking & that makes things even tougher. I don't have any advice but I am hearing you.

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HakunaKhunzSenior Contributor

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Haha thanks. Theres always a million and 1 things. It's just how we over come

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I've had Mr A for about 3 years now (before Jasper) @outlander. He was already about 4 years old by then. All I know about him that he was found in a shopping centre car park with another cat. He wasn't microchipped or collared. I was initially supposed to adopt both cats, but there was concerns they were fighting. So they were separated, but Mr A also got sick. Long story short I got Mr A by himself. The other cat was a bit rough looking & I didn't really want him.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh wow @Sans911 well hes lucky that you found him and have taken such good care of him since then. god only know what might've happened to him!

ive been trying to find you a pic of my cat that I had but im not having much luck. im sure ive got one somewhere.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911ive found one! ill upload it for you. i had to crop it cause the other cat we had, had very distinct markings so had to edit him out

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I just wrote a really long post on the intro thread to all the new people @outlander and it's been lost forever. Grr. I should have done it on my laptop. I don't want to do it again but I really should.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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maybe check your drafts @Sans911 you can see them on your phone as well might be there as it usually saves after a certain amount of time too...

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Yeah I did that @outlander
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