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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 12:33 am AEST

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Muma going to ring the company tomorrow @Lee82 i said i will need to authorise it so when shes ready to come over and ill authorise her to speak on mine/pops behalf. I dont have it in me to do it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 12:34 am AEST

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Your diamond art looks good too @Lee82
@Bunniekins do an outlander one 😉

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 12:37 am AEST

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@outlander here is one I found for you

xx

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 12:38 am AEST

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That's fantastic hun. Great to hear that your mum is going to deal with it as I can imagine you couldn't handle dealing with it right now babe.
@outlander

thanks for your comment babe. It's a very very big piece and has taken a hell of a long time

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 12:42 am AEST

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Thanks @Bunniekins

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 12:44 am AEST

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Oh yes im sure its taking a long time but worth it @Lee82

Yeh i can barely think what day it is atm or have many conversations esp ones that raise bp or stress cause worsens symptoms. She is going to request a new carer. They only come 2 hrs a week but its costing a fortune for something that isnt getting done right. He sees $ not a person and thats not what i want esp for pop.

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 12:48 am AEST

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That's so right hun. I can imagine they wouldn't be cheap and so you should be getting what you need when paying for that type of service.
@outlander

you home yet hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 12:58 am AEST

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Im home now @Lee82 home showered and in bed with the fan on cause its still 20 degrees here.

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 7:58 am AEST

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Good luck @Bunniekins 🤞💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 Sept 2020, 10:27 am AEST

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@outlander sis hoping you got some sleep and today goes well for you. Lots of love hun 💕💕

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