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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember25 Apr 2020, 8:23 pm AEST

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As you would know @outlander ... I can definitely relate. 😟

But well done for stepping back and not backing yourself into a corner from which there is no easy escape. There is a way forward, if you stop beating yourself up about something which was not your fault. All will be okay Little One. 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 8:28 pm AEST

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I think I would be beside myself if I left here just as im sure you were @Former-Member I missed you and I would miss all my forum friends if I left and didn't try to work out a better way forward instead. I done that once already.
I think we get so caught up in trying to work out whats right and what the best thing to do is sometimes we cant see a way out.
💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 8:40 pm AEST

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@Sans911 @Snowie
is there anything you guys want to talk about at all?

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Sans911Senior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 8:55 pm AEST

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Not really @outlander 💜
I've had a very disappointing week. People have let me down a lot. If I talk any more about it I'll be in tears.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 8:56 pm AEST

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come watch Ambulance Australia with me sis @Sans911 I know you like this tv show too.

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Sans911Senior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 9:00 pm AEST

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Lol @outlander I'm watching Ambulance UK on 10play atm.

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 9:03 pm AEST

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that's ones on after this one! @Sans911
the paramedics that are on tonight are actually quite funny so its a good distraction.

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Sans911Senior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 9:07 pm AEST

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Mr A relaxing

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 9:14 pm AEST

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still waiting to see whats under the triangle @Sans911

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 9:23 pm AEST

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aww hes so cute @Sans911 he looks quite comfy laying there!

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