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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 5:27 pm AEST

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lol @Former-Member i wish i could escape here. but atm driving isnt a good idea otherwise mightve gone to the lookout thing that overlooks the beach for a while but i havent even gone to the horses today.

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SnowieSenior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:11 pm AEST

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@outlander how are you going hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:24 pm AEST

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still tired @Snowie but ive manged dinner tonight. the cold drink has set off a bad headache though

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Eve7Senior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:37 pm AEST

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Sitting with you @outlander and sending a hug 🤗

💜💙💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:38 pm AEST

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@Eve7

hugs and love to you too. i know its been a tough day too

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Eve7Senior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:48 pm AEST

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@outlander 💜💜💜

aww thanks for your kind words. I suppose I’ll be back at work sooner rather than later.

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outlanderSenior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:51 pm AEST

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maybe @Eve7
can i ask what your job is/was?
is there a chance you could just start doing a few hours here and there to get back into it?

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Eve7Senior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:55 pm AEST

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I work in Govt approving plans and authorising distribution of funds. It’s a managerial position. That’s all I can say but there’s a few options.

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:56 pm AEST

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hopefully theres an option suitable for you @Eve7

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SnowieSenior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 6:57 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear your headache has gotten bad @outlander Seems like the smallest thing can set it off.

Sitting with you hun 💟

@Eve7 hoping your day has gone ok 💕

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