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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Hugs 🤗 right back to you sweetie. Take care. @outlander You are very important

💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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honestly i dont know @NatureLover he prob told me but i forgot. id say around a week though but might take a few weeks to properly recover so just have to take it day by day. today might be a bad day the next might be a little better then worse again. just have to limit anything that worsens symptoms atm

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Maggie @Eve7

better go again. trying to rest between responsibilities 😣 pain relief even strong stuff isnt working well today and dizzyness is coming on in bouts so will go lay down for a while again

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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@outlander 💕💕

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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That's not good to hear little one. I hope the pain eases very soon for you. Sending you a hug 💚

@outlander

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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oooh dear @outlander you have been thru the wars again.

FInding things to do without screens can be tough, but you are inventive, tho being indoors is prob not your thing. Any good jigsaw puzzles?

I really loved @Eve7 Leunig device cartoon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Maggie

thanks @Lee82

thanks @Appleblossom
i cant do puzzles or anything like that because its mentally stimulating. even crochet is classed as off limits atm.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander hoping your headache has eased a little for you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it hasnt @Snowie 😞
the days been friggin horrible as well and without many distractions i can use my SI/SH is becoming really hard to control

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear hun @outlander

Am around for awhile if you need some support/distraction but I also know you need to limit your time here.

Lots of hugs and hugs

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