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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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ethSenior Contributor24 Apr 2020, 10:21 am AEST

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Hi @Snowie xx

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Shaz51Senior Contributor24 Apr 2020, 11:07 am AEST

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oh I love Ambulance, Paramedics tooo and supervet

Yorkshire vets @outlander

yes @Former-Member i have seen Contagion,( glad we did not get it that bad )

hugs @eth , @Snowie

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ethSenior Contributor24 Apr 2020, 11:20 am AEST

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Hugs to you too @Shaz51 x

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 5:37 pm AEST

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SnowieSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 5:40 pm AEST

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@outlander sitting with you sis through all of this 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 5:42 pm AEST

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@Snowie @Sans911 @eth @Shaz51 @Former-Member and all following

sending you all love

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Shaz51Senior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 5:47 pm AEST

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ohhhh are you ok my sister @outlander xoxo

Hello and hugs @Snowie , @eth , @Former-Member

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Sans911Senior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 5:52 pm AEST

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You are none of those things you think you are my angel. I think sometimes unfortunately you're a scapegoat for other people's frustrations, tempers, whatever you want to call it. I don't know how to fix things for you, I'm sorry I can't but if I could take you away from your situation and show how you really deserve to be treated I'm sure you wouldn't feel the way you do. I think too your physical health problems are possibly related to what's going on emotionally.

I haven't seen anything here that's an issue but perhaps I missed it. But know this @outlander. You can always turn to me. Always.

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Sans911Senior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 6:05 pm AEST

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If you are talking about what happened a few days ago (here) over ➡️ then you handled that situation beautifully. You showed maturity, respect, compassion and understanding. I was very proud of you. 💜 ❤️ 💙 💜

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor25 Apr 2020, 6:14 pm AEST

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no not really @Shaz51

@Sans911 I had a whole post written up but I cant post it. theres to much on my mind and scared how itll affect others. I don't want to be the consistently negative person that no one wants around just like in real life.

the sickness thing that is happening atm I don't think is from the emotional stuff this time....but I could be very wrong too... but it happened before the more latests turmoils so im not sure.... I hear back on Monday about the results and things though...

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