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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember

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Yes the profile pic finally got approved. I loaded it a week ago when I signed up again. But there was apparently some system glitch and they had trouble bringing it up @outlander . May seem odd, but I just didnt recognise myself without seeing my pic of little Holly when I logged in. So the managers finally did a fixup job on the pic on Tues.

Feeling disheartened aye? I can understand that. You have had a series of health issues plaguing you over the past 6 months especially. Never getting answers, and very little relief. I dont blame you either for being upset that your GP up and left without warning. Especially since you had seen her literally days before. Hope the new replacement is better than the one who left. Could be a blessing?

Sherry

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im glad its finally up @Former-Member
shes part of the forums too!

its not just the health stuff unfortunately. I mean its a big part of it esp since im feeling worse even after just a few mouthfuls earlier and my other gp leaving despite having plenty of time to let me know hasn't helped. the new gp is only at the practice for 12 months and all gps except my nurse now are males all of which im not overly fond of for other reasons (not just because I prefer female) the new gp seems alright and nice for now I suppose though.
left me in the deep end though trying to find a new gp who I feel I can connect with and even more so with my mh.

its also my own fb page, It took up abit of courage and quite abit of work to have things ready to advertise but the only ones who 'liked' it are those who are on my friends list., I had a few other people but they have since unliked the page. I get orders through other fb groups but never really leads to anything more so its abit disheartening, kind of thinking of closing it down and just advertising things through fb groups instead or giving it a rest for a while.

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Unknown userMember

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Oh I see @outlander ... that would be disheartening, I agree. Gee, so sorry but I am unable to advise on that. Rarely use FB and have no idea at all about advertising goods through fb, groups or otherwise.

I have been watching a movie on tele tonight, on Channel 7. Contagion, a 2011 movie about the outbreak of a corona virus. Got Matt Damon in it, whom I like. Have you seen it?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no I haven't seen it @Former-Member I did see it was suppose to be on but im watching greys anatomy. its one of my favourite tv shows and episodes I haven't seen yet.

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Unknown userMember

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Yeah @outlander Greys Anatomy is a good show, I watch it sometimes too. I like a lot of the medical type shows, and crime ones.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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its one of my faves along with criminal minds and bbt and everyone loves Raymond as well.

do you have any favourite tv shows?
@Former-Member

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Unknown userMember

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No particular favs really, but I do like Criminal Minds too. @outlander . And CSI, Ambulance, 9-1-1, NCIS, The Good Doctor. Stuff like that. Actually I just finished watching (on demand) all 5 series of Bates Motel. A series based on the old classic Psycho movie. Didnt expect to like it, but got drawn in.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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oh I love Ambulance, Paramedics and also one born every minute too @Former-Member
NCIS is also good too, I didn't really get into the good doctor surprisingly though 🤨

I haven't seen bates motel or the psycho movie but I don't generally watch that sort of thing.
its interesting what we watch and unexpectedly get drawn into though. im glad that you liked it though, we all need a good bin;ge tv series to watch!

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ethSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander sending you some hugs xoxo

Hi also to @Former-Member @Snowie

Lovely to see you all supporting each other here.

Hope today is one of the better ones for you all.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@eth @outlander @Former-Member @Shaz51 and anyone else passing through

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