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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Unknown userMember19 Aug 2020, 11:34 pm AEST

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Hey little one, sending you lots of love and gentle hugs. I am glad you have your computer issue sorted. Are you sibling sitting tonight?

@outlander

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 2:52 am AEST

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@outlander Hey outlander and thank you. You are a sweetheart. A kind and caring soul. Love to you sweetheart. pea

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 8:31 am AEST

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Thinking of you, @outlander ...hoping that today is an OK day for you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 3:43 pm AEST

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@Former-Member @Bunniekins @NatureLover 💛💙💜

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 4:09 pm AEST

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@outlander Hey outlander 🙂 how are you going sweety? Hoping life is treating you kindly today xxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 4:36 pm AEST

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Not really that well atm 😞 @Bunniekins

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 4:40 pm AEST

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@outlander I thought not ... what's up hunny? do you want to talk about it?xx

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 4:49 pm AEST

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Just stressed about so many things @Bunniekins
ive always got to be the emotional support person but im not allowed to have anyone. gets upsetting being told im a liar. in so much debt yet again and no idea how i got in this place doesnt seem to matter how much i pay off there always seems to be more. nothings good enough for anyone so more pressure to make sure things are done right paid on time everyones provided for etc.
im sorry little pea theres so many people here hurting i dont think i should ad to it. im not worth it anyway

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 4:54 pm AEST

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@outlander Oh sweetheart you are worth it. You do so much for everyone in rl and online. I wish you were able to take some time out for yourself. Just have some me time. Sorry to hear about the money problems that is always super stressful. Did you know that you can get free financial advice through either the salvos or st vinnies I cannot remember which.... I have used them in the past and found them really helpful when you feel your finances are out of control.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Aug 2020, 5:02 pm AEST

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im usually ok with finances @Bunniekins but since i now have hospital fees to pay (still nearly $1000 plus another op that might be coming up soon) and car repairs and rego and now pops carer (an extra 200 a month) things are just out of control and had to take out 2 small loans but they have high interest on them so its almost double of what i borrowed but i was abit desparate and no where to turn.
im hoping if pop can get a loan very soon it might help to pay off some loans and get on top of some bills at least. i hate always having to use advance payments for bills 😞
it doesnt help that now i have a new condition my groceries are more expensive.
lifes just so overwhelming. my sh and SI are even higher today then the past few days im struggling to manage them.

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