FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

18135 replies

4,991 - 5,000 of 18,135
1...499500501...1,814

In response to: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@Emelia8 its good to finally have some answers now despite everything. It is a sliding hiatus hernia but its not large enough to operate on. He might consider it later on if all the dietary changes dont help first. im sorry your brother has one as well, its not overly pleasant with the symptoms. hopefully my symptoms will ease as everything else settles.

hernia surgeries arent pleasant and its a long recovery even after the stitches etc are out so i dont think they want to do them all to often.

not really alot on this weekend. we have alot of rain here. 75mls so far today and a few storms, suppose to be more then 100mls tomorrow.
ive only got the horses but thats about it. i made adairy free cake from scratch earlier

What about you?

Sorry @Emelia8 i clicked the wrong username when it popped up 🤦‍♀️

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@Snowie have you got ect tomorrow too?

In response to: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Its not the same without you @Sans911 😞 i hope things will settle down soon so you can pop in more.

In response to: Re: not coping

MaggieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander Dropping off some 💕💕💕💕

@Snowie @Emelia8 @Emelia8 @Former-Member @Sans911 and everyone 👋🏻👋🏻💕💕

In response to: Re: not coping

LostandaloneSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

💞💞💞💞💞

In response to: Re: not coping

NatureLoverSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

So sorry to read your Worry Room post, @outlander ...thinking of you lots and sending gentle hugs. I really value you, you are a very special person, there's no-one I know like you. I think you are truly amazing. I so wish things would ease for you soon... I'm impressed you've already made a dairy free cake, that shows your determination. Sending you lots of care and wishes for healing and hope

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@NatureLover @Maggie @Lostandalone 💙💙

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

thank you @NatureLover and @Emelia8 for your posts on the other thread too

In response to: Re: not coping

SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander sending lots of love and hugs sweetheart 💕💕💕

In response to: Re: not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@Snowie
4,991 - 5,000 of 18,135
1...499500501...1,814

SANE Forums is published by SANE with funding from the Australian Government Department of Health.

SANE Forums does not provide crisis support.
If you need immediate assistance, please see available crisis services.

Learn more about SANE and SANE services at sane.org

Back to top
SANE logo
Australian Commission on Safety and Quality in Health Care NSQDMH Accreditation logo

Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.

Donate Now
Aboriginal flag
Torres Strait Islander flag
LGBT flag
Transgender flag

SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.

SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.

Back to top
SANE logo
Australian Commission on Safety and Quality in Health Care NSQDMH Accreditation logo

Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.

Donate Now
Aboriginal flag
Torres Strait Islander flag
LGBT flag
Transgender flag

SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.

SANE values diversity. We are committed to providing a safe, culturally appropriate, and inclusive service for all people, regardless of their ethnicity, faith, disability, sexuality, or gender identity.

SANE is a public company limited by guarantee and registered tax-exempt charity with DGR (Deductible Gift Recipient) status.

Charity ABN 92 006 533 606. Donations of $2 or more are tax deductible. SANE, PO Box 1226, Carlton VIC 3053.