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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 12:36 pm AEST

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I thought your appointment was tomorrow @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 1:06 pm AEST

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Pops specialist @Lee82 sorry i forgot to ad whose specilist

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 1:10 pm AEST

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Oh ok. How did the call go?
@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 1:15 pm AEST

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was ok i guess @Lee82 was just a review to see how far along pops dementia is progressing. seems stable but abit hard to tell over the phone cause cant perform all the tests they ask.
ive already copped an earful from him and my mother about several things but i wont get into it.

just passing time now till i have the kids till midnight. will go feed the animals after i pick them up from school i suppose.

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 1:18 pm AEST

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You are so good to your family hun I don't understand why no one sees that but I understand what you go through as I go through a similar thing with my Mum. Nothing I ever do is good enough. No matter how much I do for her or anyone else she will always find something to complain about and is always my fault.
@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 1:26 pm AEST

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Thanks @Lee82 family is tough sometimes hey.

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 1:28 pm AEST

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Sometimes....🤔 all the bloody time....lol

@outlander

i am so over it but there isn't anything I can do about it so I understand what's its like for you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 1:33 pm AEST

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yeh @Lee82 just stuck here. tiring.

hows your day?

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SnowieSenior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 4:39 pm AEST

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@outlander @Lee82

Sitting here with both of you hoping your day improves.💜💜💜

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 5:19 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie hope your day has been kind to you 💙

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