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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Aug 2020, 8:19 pm AEST

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@Sans911 wondering how your going and how your days been? i know youve been abit busy atm but hope you might check in and say hello today too

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Lee82Senior Contributor01 Aug 2020, 10:14 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander sounds like a lot was done but a lot more has to be done for you. I'm so sorry you are in so much pain in your mouth. That must be frustrating. I hear you have another busy day ahead of you tomorrow hun so I really do hope you get a little me time in the arvo to recoup and reenergise before your busy week ahead.

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Aug 2020, 10:18 pm AEST

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Thanks @Lee82 its abit like add it to the list of issues to work through 🤦‍♀️

Hows your day been? How are you going

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Lee82Senior Contributor01 Aug 2020, 10:31 pm AEST

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Yea I can imagine it feels like one thing after another hun. I feel you and I am so sorry you have to endure all this pain at such a young age. You do not deserve any of it.
my day was really nice thanks for asking @outlander not sure if you saw my post on the darkness thread but I took the kids to see a beautiful waterfall and then took them to a children's park for a few hours and we had lunch at a bakery. It was lovely weather today and I actually can say it was the first time in a long time that I enjoyed it some what.

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 Aug 2020, 10:52 pm AEST

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Oh lovely @Lee82 i mustve missed the tag earlier.
Waterfall and a bakery lunch sounds so nice. Im glad you had a good day, its nice to hear

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Lee82Senior Contributor01 Aug 2020, 11:26 pm AEST

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Yea it felt strange actually. It's been so long since I have enjoyed a day. Tonight is another story. Unfortunately the good feeling has been replaced with anxiety 😔

@outlander

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 9:44 am AEST

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Hey @outlander how you feeling today hun? Did you get any sleep last night?

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 10:33 am AEST

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i got some sleep @Lee82 maybe around 5 hours which is better then normal. already done the morning horses but have more to do later this afternoon.
feeling abit less stressed as i was approved for a very small loan to get my car registered. it stuffed up my chances of getting a new car within the next 3 months but im going to aim to have my 2 small loans paid off by then and hopefully some other bills like the hospital bills, afterpay etc so that when i can go for a car loan i wont have more expenses

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Lee82Senior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 10:47 am AEST

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That is so good hear @outlander. 5 hours is amazing.
congrats on getting the loan too hun. Hopefully that will help you relieve some financial pressure for a little while.

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outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2020, 12:11 pm AEST

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Thanks @Lee82 just anothet bill to pay but its better then having an unregistered car.
Just finished talking to the specialist

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