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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Shes at work so cant leave @Lee82 we all know how the convo would go if i said im tired or have to be up early.

Sunday seems abit quieter but will need to catch up on a load or 2 of washing before the week gets busy again.

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Yea I do know how that conversation would go @outlander .
I really hope your dentist appointment goes well and they are able to help you hun. What time is the appointment? Is it just a check up or are they going to do some work?

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Its at 930 but i have 2 horses to do before that @Lee82 its just a checkup. Im trying out a new dentist for at least checkups.they cant do anything about the damage thats been done now.

My regular dentist/surgeons are in a very big covid hotspot so im not going anywhere near there and is a 2 hr train ride anyway and my stomach cant handle it atm. I often get abit trainsick in general so not a good idea atm even without covid. My health insurance allows 2 checkups a yr so ill use one now then in 6 months time.

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Hi @outlander @I hope your evening has been ok.

A couple of weeks ago I heard a dentist being interviewed on ABC conversations.!She treats people who have suffered sa and she talked about the link between that and teeth.

I had terrible teeth for years but a couple of years ago I had them fixed (expensive exercise). but this really interested me. I could try and find it and post the link if you’re interested.

I hope it’s ok to tell you this, if not, I’ll get it deleted..

💜💙💜

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Of course you can share @Eve7 if you can find the interview it might be good to watch it.

My issues werent to bad (only the fact i had impacted wisdom teeth) but once they were removed they also damaged the nerve on the right side of my face. Have alot of nerve symptoms now for the past yr and gum issues since then as well.

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Oh ok I see. Yea I wouldn't be going anywhere near them either. I am not in a lockdown area myself but I am surrounded by them. Cause I live in a very small town I have no choice but to go in those areas for food and doctors etc so have to wear a mask all the time. It is a terrible feeling wearing a mask. I feel like I am going to suffocate so I try not to leave home as much as I can.

@outlander

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Sorry about your finger @outlander and your late night.

I did housework then went for a drive with a friend over the border which was a stupid idea as it took hours to get back across. I’m home now in iso until I get my results...waiting game.

💜💙💜

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We are pretty good here atm @Lee82 some restrictions but none overbearing. Yeah i struggle with masks too. I dont have to wear them much though except possibly to hospital appts if any come up in the next fee months but im ok with that.

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@Lee82 you could always do grocery shopping online to reduce the amount you need to go out

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Its ok @Eve7 only an hr to go now (maybe less) so i can go to bed soon.
Hoping your results will come back quickly. I got mine within 24hrs when i needed to get one done.
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