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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

thanks @NatureLover
hows your day looking?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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I feel out of sorts today, unusually, so I'm not sure what I'll get done around the house. But it's due to be sunny this afternoon, so I plan to be out walking in it... 🙂

Has the rain stopped there now?

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sorry your feeling out of sorts @NatureLover do you know what might be causing it? maybe just an off day today?

a walk out in the sun sounds nice. yes, the rains stopped here now but suppose to have some more next week but not 250mls like we just had just some showers

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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I had a surprisingly bad night, maybe dehydrated? I'm not sure why I feel so off, otherwise. I don't like it, lol. 🙂

I'm glad you don't have any more heavy rain forecast. The horses' paddocks must be very soggy and muddy, are they? Do the horses ever slip and fall? (Don't let me keep you if you have that stuff you need to do, by the way) @outlander

Also, I'm having trouble posting this morning...it's not letting me post for some reason, so I'm not sure if this post will get through. I have emailed the moderators about it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Oh im sorry your night was bad @NatureLover can you do some extra self care today? Maybe a hot bath with bubbles or bath salts or something else relaxing you like to do?

I hope they fix the glitch quickly for you. My posts take a little bit to actually post as well the last few days.

The paddocks are soo muddy and slippery atm. The horses dont generally slip over. Theyre pretty sensible and dont really run around or anything.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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My tiny unit doesn't have a bath, but thanks once again for your ever-practical suggestions (which I admire). I guess I'm just craving that sunny walk, but the sun hasn't come out yet, so I'll just wait for that.

I'm glad the horses don't slip, but I guess it must be hard for humans not to slip!

@outlander

@outlander wrote:
I hope they fix the glitch quickly for you. My posts take a little bit to actually post as well the last few days.

OK, that makes me feel better, thanks 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

I hope that sun comes out soon @NatureLover its actually coming out quite hot

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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The sun's out! I'm out in it! I feel a million times better already! @outlander

I don't know if you like it hot? It's gotta be better than solid rain for days, I reckon...

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander @NatureLover hoping your afternoon's go ok. Lots of love and hugs 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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So glad your feeling better @NatureLover maybe you just had to get out in nature for abit 😏

Nah im not a fan of the heat but its not overly hot only around 18 degrees. Enough to take a jacket off but not enough to be dripping in sweat.

I just got lugged a $500 bill for pathology for the biposies they took/analyzed during the gastroscopy 😯
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