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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Thank you @Eve7. The longest time I was in hospital was 5 weeks about 3 years ago. I remember those feelings you are experiencing very clearly.

I'm still living the tough road some days, but at least the pot holes aren't so big to drown in now!! And it's taken me 3 years to feel less traumatised about my experiences and get down to formalising a couple of awful complaints. I am hoping to take one professional to the licencing board as I believe she has breached her code of conduct. It's not nice doing that to anyone, but I believe it's necessary that lessons are learnt and people are made to be accountable for their actions.

My negative experiences now serve as my passion to help others hopefully get treated better than me. Everyone deserves kindness, compassion and respect. 💖💖💖

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Oooh 🤦‍♀️ why didn't i pick that up lol @Sans911

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Yeah using a phones abit annoying @Eve7 i usually only use mine if im not at home or late when im in bed. Hooking it up to the tv sounds like a good idea

A new thread sounds good too, i will still be here on whatever thread you feel ok to be on 💛

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Good night @outlander @Sans911

@@I am turning out the light for the last time in this lovely, safe room.

Talk to you tomorrow from my home.

Have a good night you two

🤗😊💛

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Goodnight @Eve7 sleep well. Remember to breathe tomorrow 💛💛

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Hi @outlander , how much sleep did you get last night?

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i got a few hours thanks @NatureLover
have been out and done some of the horses since 730, pickup grocery shopping, back home now. have much more to do today though but running out of energy already so will see how much gets ticked off the list.

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@outlander wrote:
i got a few hours thanks @NatureLover

Really glad to hear this 🙂

Sounds like your day has more than you need in it...sorry to hear. Do you have the kids tonight as well?

@outlander

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no i dont have the kids tonight but i have them tomorrow night @NatureLover

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OK...well I'm glad you get one night off from them at least, @outlander

I hope you find a bit of time(s) in your day to rest today...

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