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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
i was to afriad to even ask for help or say that i cant do it all myself

That is so wrong, that you should have to feel afraid of asking for what you need. Wrong that's your mother's fault, I mean, not yours.

I just so wish you could get away from her. 😥

@outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander I know how difficult mothers can be hun.

@NatureLover 💜

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Yea your mum doesn't take the day shifts so she doesn't have to look after the kids cause she knows you will do it. 😡

well next Wednesday can't come soon enough hun. I have my fingers and toes crossed for you that after Wednesday things start to improve for you.
@outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Am signing off for the night shortly but just wanted to send heaps of best wishes for your night @outlander , hoping very much it has less intense pain and more sleep in it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Goodnight @NatureLover ❤

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I hope so too i really wish the appt was earlier @Lee82 had a piece of pizza but felt sick even smelling it.

@Snowie here for you too 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Evening all @outlander @Snowie @Lee82 @Former-Member @NatureLover @Zoe7 @Eve7 🙂💕💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Evening @Sans911 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hows your day been? @Sans911

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Eve7how are you going? Are you abit nervous about being discharged tomorrow? Ill be making a tea soon if youd like to join me?

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