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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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good to see you @Lostandalone please join in anytime you like

sending love @Sans911 @Eve7 @Snowie @Lee82 i hope todays been ok

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover but not much sleep here. was a really bad night with my stomach so i was very restless and quite tired

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Hi @outlander how you feeling today hun? My day was ok. It was pretty full on. Feeling tired now.

hi to everyone else. Hope your day was a good one and that you were able to find a little sparkle in it 🌟

@NatureLover @Snowie @Sans911 @Lostandalone @Maggie @Zoe7 @Former-Member

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear last night was bad hun. Here if you need to chat @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats ok @Snowie i dont really have anything to talk about its just really intense pain.

@Lee82 im a little better than last night but i havent had dinner yet. i have the kids till midnight tonight so im hoping it wont flare up again. i wont really be pain or feeling sick free till my stomachs been treated i think.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thats ok @outlander we can talk about anything hun.

Have just cooked tea so at least that is done for the night.

Kids can just help themselves when they want tea.

Hoping having the kids goes ok tonight hun. Sounds like another late night for you.

Have you got much planned for tomorrow?

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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So another long night for you hun. 😞

I know it must be frustrating for you to be going through stomach pains every time you eat. I truly can't wait for you to be treated so you can finally have some peace. You bloody deserve it babe.
I hope your night goes by quickly and is not too overwhelming for you. ❤️
@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i ordered pizzas tonight @Snowie
ihave dinner already planned for tomorrow so thats sorted.
i have the horses in the morning and arvo, and just have to pick up some things from the post office that i wasnt home for earlier.

i honestly hate hte late nights @Lee82 @Snowie but it doesnt matter how many times i say it she never really takes the day shift. there about 2 day shifts each week but the rest are late night ones.

@Lee82 next wednesday will hopefully give me some treatment options and how soon i can start.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
thanks @NatureLover but not much sleep here. was a really bad night with my stomach so i was very restless and quite tired

Really sorry to hear, you must be exhausted after 2 nights with virtually no sleep, and many nights before that with very little sleep 😥

I won't even say what I think about your mother not taking the day shifts on offer.

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i tried to talk to her but couldnt @NatureLover i know it falls on deaf ears. i have been meaning to clean up my carport so her car can go in there for some repairs but i cant do it all myself. i was to afriad to even ask for help or say that i cant do it all myself
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