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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:41 pm AEST

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yeah thats more then enough for tonight @Snowie 👍

im watching modern family now, ive watched most of criminal minds now but feel like something different.
i might have to join you and Izzy with sleep! im quite tired too

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:45 pm AEST

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Good for you for doing all that exercise, @outlander . I don't do any, other than walks and they're not very strenuous.

How are your grazes and wounds from your recent accident healing up?

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:49 pm AEST

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wounds are healing well @NatureLover almost gone except some of the deeper sores. bruising is getting abit better now too.

walking is exercise even if they arent strenuous so well done

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:50 pm AEST

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Am hoping the sleeping meds do the trick tonight @outlander They didn't work too well last night.

Going to try and last a little longer so I am not up super early in the morning.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 7:54 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
walking is exercise even if they arent strenuous so well done

Thanks. I think for real exercise though you have to get your heart rate up, and I don't do that. I go walking for my mental health, to be out in nature, not for exercise...oh well!

I'm glad your wounds are mostly healing well. Hopefully you're not getting any /much pain from them any more... @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 8:00 pm AEST

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well you have a night owl here to keep you company lol! @Snowie i wont be asleep for a while yet. i was going to crochet but i jsut dont have the energy so put it aside. ill just chat here and watch modern family for now.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 8:01 pm AEST

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It's time for me to log off for the night...really hoping you sleep better tonight, @outlander . And that you also sleep OK, @Snowie ...

Take care 💙💜

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Lee82Senior Contributor28 July 2020, 8:04 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander I have been catching up on your thread and I'm so sorry to hear about your struggles. Just want you to know that I struggle with the same sort of thing so I completely understand what your feeling and going through.

I hope tonight you can get some proper rest hun. Sounds like you have had a pretty big day.

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 8:04 pm AEST

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Goodnight @NatureLover I don't think I will be far away either tonight. I hope you sleep well.

@outlander I think S is going to have a growth spurt, he has not stopped eating for the last two hours. He had tea, then some banana bread, then a yoghurt and now a sandwich!!

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 July 2020, 8:22 pm AEST

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@outlander have just taken my meds so will say goodnight sweetheart. I hope you get some sleep/rest tonight hun. Will talk again tomorrow 💜💜💜

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