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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hey @NatureLover how are you holding up? ❤

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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I'm doing OK thanks 💙 @outlander

How are you holding up?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im glad your going ok. Your doing an amazing job of supporting others tonight so wanted to check in on you too @NatureLover

Im as ok as can be right now i think so im just managing as best as i can

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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You're amazing at managing, @outlander . I'm glad you're as OK as possible - I know you're not really OK 😥

@outlander wrote:
Im glad your going ok. Your doing an amazing job of supporting others tonight so wanted to check in on you too @NatureLover

You're so sweet, thank you 💙

I was glad you showed up!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Managing will do @NatureLover its not very often i say im ok so im use to having just better days. Today was a better day with no arguments, no sh, my si has been under control and i had abit of dinner so i will take that as a win plus i got my 4 rows of crochet done so i accomplished my goal for today. These are wins for me.

I know your on a few threads tonight i dont always respond but im often reading. One member doesnt really reapond to anyone but you and a moderator so i have stepped back unless its late at night when i know your in bed. I dont want you to feel too much pressure either.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Am so relieved and happy to hear that today was a better day for you @outlander 🙂 And well done for getting the crochet rows done as well 👍

@outlander wrote:
I know your on a few threads tonight i dont always respond but im often reading. One member doesnt really reapond to anyone but you and a moderator so i have stepped back unless its late at night when i know your in bed. I dont want you to feel too much pressure either.

I guess I do feel a bit of pressure on that thread, but haven't been tagging you there as you've been going through hell yourself. I do notice and very much appreciate your presence there, especially in the night 💙 But I know it's difficult.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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you can tag me there anytime @NatureLover if others will accept my help or listening ears then im quite happy to be there. i do watch though and your not alone, if you need extra support there please do tag me and others ok

did you get to go for your walk today? hows all the book reading going?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Too wet for a walk today, and am not reading as I seem to be too busy on the forums! But that's OK, the books are there if I need some escapism.

@outlander wrote:
you can tag me there anytime @NatureLover if others will accept my help or listening ears then im quite happy to be there. i do watch though and your not alone, if you need extra support there please do tag me and others ok

Thanks, that makes me feel better that you're watching. Thanks for your kind offer, you're one of the most generous hearted people I've ever met, @outlander . 💙

I need to sign off for the night...I'm glad you're there for Lee82 tonight...I'll just pop over there now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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the forums are pretty good at taking up time in the day 😏 @NatureLover not always a bad thing though esp when we are among friends!

the same compliment goes back to you too. you very kind and generous yourself

I hope you manage some sleep tonight

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Thanks for your kind words, I hope you manage some sleep too, lovely person 💙 @outlander

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