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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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I am glad you found some cover hun @outlander that suits you and is not real expensive.

It's good that you can still see your nurse, at least you still have that support sweetie.

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Oh dear please stay safe.

I’m ok tonight after a bumpy start to the day. I’m just reading to distract myself for a while.

I hope your pain improves quickly...gosh you deserve a break..a pleasant one.

💙💜💙

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yeah ive been contemplating this cover for a while, even before i asked on here a while ago about what others though about health insurance. i think knowing a hernia unless removed is going to be an ongoing thing plus womens health just doesnt dissappear either so i gathered if i need a laproscopy or anything like that ill be covered for that as well plus the basics like appendix, tonsils and that sort of stuff (which tough wood doesnt happen!!) @Snowie i guess since ive been sitting on it for so long it might be a sign that its a good option.

i only see the nurse once every month though and she doesnt seem to be helping. im going to have to get her to suggest some more things besides eat healthy and exercise (which im already doing) to try and get more weight off again. even though ive increased exercise and have been barely having one meal a day for the last few weeks apparently i put it on 🤷‍♀️ she and I cant work it out or know why thats happened but my gp and specialist have been encouraging me as well i just struggle with it heaps always have-could be part of pcos though as i really only have to breathe in oil and it takes advantage of that!
i have my online counsellor that i chat with each week (or fortnight depending on when i can speak with her) as well.

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thanks @Eve7 getting quite sick of it. something going right would be a nice change!

im sorry you had a bumpy start to the day, do you want to talk about it? im ok to listen if itll help?

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Thanks for the offer @outlander but I want to forget about it for now.

I’m getting meds now so I hope your day goes well tomorrow and you get some pain free sleep tonight.

Lots of love to you and @Snowie @NatureLover

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thats ok @Eve7 i hope your meds work and you can get some sleep and start the day fresh tomorrow
love and hugs 🧡💛💛💛

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Glad you have got it sorted then @outlander

Will say goodnight hun, am just going to call it quits for today and hopefully get some sleep.

I hope your stomach settles down and that you get some sleep tonight hun.

Goodnight @Eve7 will check in on you tomorrow

Lots of love and hugs 💜💛💜💛

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goodnight @Snowie was good catching you i hope you sleep well and tomorrow is better. good luck with psych appt tomorrow

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@outlander thinking of you, hoping your injuries are not too painful today and that you have energy to do the horses and look after the kids, and also that you can get some food and drink down today.

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thanks @NatureLover
hoping your not feeling to stressed today
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