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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it doesnt seem too bad @Snowie it would be $100 (without a discount code or 80 with the current code they have) for 10 meals so enough for the week for both of us. what makes it tricky though is i often have the kids for dinner as well so it prob wouldnt work out unless i went through each week and seen what days i dont have them (which is like 3 days a week 🤦‍♀️) might just have to get some ideas off the website instead and make it for us all.

nah havent organied dinner here yet either.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Wow, Nikki, what a beautiful post you wrote for me, thank you heaps dear @Former-Member ❤️

You've touched my heart, and please don't worry that you almost made me cry, that's a good thing! It means it meant a lot to me. I am blessed to know you, too 🙂

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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Hey @Former-Member I did everything I needed to do except go to Spotlight. I actually forgot to go but it is not important so it can wait. I will call in one day after work this week as it is on my way home. I also did some grocery shopping so I shouldn't need to go again until later in the week.

Going to have a shower soon, cook dinner and then get back into work. There is rugby on tonight I will watch for a break then more work again. It is likely to be a long night again but I am feeling okay (after pain relief) so hope that continues.

May squishy hugs for you Hon - know it is not easy for you at the moment but you are in my thoughts

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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That seems like a good price @outlander but would be hard when you have your sisters so much.

Have you thought of Hello fresh, where they give you the ingredients but you have to make it. In saying that I don't know how much money that is however.

I try and make double of things and then freeze them. So when I get to nights like tonight I can just grab it out of the freezer and not have to worry about cooking.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah ive heard alot of negative things about hello fresh like the food didnt last long (like fruit and veg didnt last long) or the ingredients they got werent fresh to begin with so im staying away from that one

am arranging pickup for the new horse tomorrow. mum has this big thing planned to introduce them and to go on fb and blah blah blah @Snowie

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander am just catching up with your news now...sorry you've had bloating and pain today...and that there will be a bow etc for your sister and your horse that now won't be yours...am so very sorry 😞 I wish that was different.

I hoep you can hit upon a solution for the food ordering.

Thinking of you especially tomorrow which will be a difficult day for you with picking up the horse 😞 Sending a big gentle hug @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover
better go sort dinner out for pop hes getting hungry. ill come back later

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry you have to go through that tomorow @outlander it is certainly not fair and will no doubt be very hard for you. You will be in my thoughts tomorrow hun 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @NatureLover @Snowie
just taking it step by step atm with managing pain and everything else as well. i dont have much energy so dont even now how much help ill be tomorrow.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Step by step is fine hun @outlander I hope the pain is managable tonight.

My thoughts will be with you tomorrow sweetheart. I know it will be a difficult day for you.

Do you have to go tomorrow or can your mum handle it without you?

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