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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Well that's how everyone should be treated all the time @outlander. But I'm sure it eased your mind to be treated with kindness and care. You most definitely deserved that.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im not sure @Sans911 he was only just able to give me an update while i was groggy before he had to go but he said he will wait for the biospies and then we will go over everything properly possibly in person so i can have a look at the pictures he took as well.
im glad that it hasnt turned out to be anything sis, i was worried they were going to start blaming it on my mh if there wasnt anything there. he didnt mention ulcers cause thats what we originally thought (or maybe he did but i cant remember-oopsy)
im not sure how they didnt see a hernia on an mri though? wouldnt they be able to see that sort of thing or maybe it was there but wasnt focussed in that area when i done the scans or somehing

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander ! Thanks for the update... OMG at your blood pressure!

I'm relieved the've found some causes of your pain, anyway... I hope the biopsies come back quickly.

Rest up tonight, I'm glad the op went better from your perspective than the last one.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it was different @Sans911 im not use to that sort of treatment. it helped with my anxiety having that sort of environment. everyone seemed really tense when i had my dental op, barely seen any nurses (unless you were a favourite) and they were rough. these ones werent so it was much nicer and im glad that i paid privately to go there. i was worried it was going to be shite and a waste of money but it was worth it. im thankfully my specilist and the anaethetist bulk billed it as well which most dont do in the private system otherwise i wouldnt have been able to afford it.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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It will be better to discuss everything in person with him lil Sis. You will remember it better as well. And your specialist probably has to assess what he's found before he decides what's going to do next. Yes, hernia might have been I just a different place today from where MRI was looking.

Afternoon @Lee82 - how are you going hun?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeh @NatureLover dont worry me and the nurse had the same facial reaction when we saw that one! thankfully its come down abit and hopefully might keep coming back down.

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I am so glad you had a good experience at the hospital @outlander that always helps. In a way I am glad they have found some things @outlander so hopefully they can direct you in the right direction to feeling much better. Hopefully that is done sooner rather than later. Hope you can rest tonight and don't have anything to worry about doing. Take care hun

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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yeah @Sans911 he was only able to stop in for about 10 minutes but probably didnt want to push too much info since i wasnt really 'awake' so just the basic findings for now. hopefully i might be able to have a better chat with him this friday (he only works fridays in this clinic/hospital) and go from there.

hey @Snowie 👋

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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@Snowie @NatureLover

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander glad you are at home resting and it all went well.

So nice to have caring people around you whilst it was being done.

Rest up hun💜

@NatureLover @Sans911 @Lee82 💕💕💕

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