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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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How has your day been? @Sans911

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Rainy and cold here @outlander. I've not been up to much. Catching up with emails and stuff

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its cold here too but im home now and in front of the heater watching a movie @Sans911 still pretty tired and very unenergectic atm.

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hey @Maggie @NatureLover 👋

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That's alright lil Sis @outlander. Rest up while you can.

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@Sans911
my bp when i got in there was 149/95 😬 thankfully it come down a little bit (still in the 140s/ 88 by the time i was able to leave but i think that explains the headache i had before i went in there!
they have found a few things during the scoping. so far its a hernia, a heck of of lot of inflammation and a few different areas needed biopsies so just waiting on those to come back hopefully within the next week and then will speak to the specialist again. when he told me what he found he asked me a few times if i smoked or do smoke (which i dont) but i cant remember the reason why.

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Hey @outlander how you feeling hun? It was lovely to hear from you. 💗

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Thanks for the update @outlander. I was waiting until you were ready.

So are they going to repair the hernia in another operation? And inflammation sure cause be a source of all your pain. I'm glad it wasn't a fruitless procedure.

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it was a much better expeience then my dental op though. the nurses were nicer and introduced themselves and spoke nicely, the anaethetist was quite funny trying to distract me from needles cause i said im not a huge fan of them and i finally met my specilist as well. ive only spoken to him on the phone so far cause of covid and him limited who he actually sees unless neccessary. one of the nurses said you look quite good for someone whose nervous lol. i said yeah i tend to look well, its a different story on the inside though but they were all good in there. i didnt come across any snarly nurses thankfully so was much nicer then the last op i had.
@Sans911

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im feeling okish @Lee82 still have abit of a headache, tired and abit bleh but nothing major. i just took some pain relief since im allowed to eat and drink now and just keeping warm with a movie.
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