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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor14 July 2020, 1:15 pm AEST

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@outlander wrote:
i know lots of members here can relate to you not being able to watch tv as well @NatureLover

Oh, really? That's actually a comfort, as I don't know anyone else who doesn't watch TV. Thanks, @outlander 🙂

I understand about the 'good tired' feeling of doing something you love.

I'm guessing from what you said that it's become a job /chore now?

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 5:49 pm AEST

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would anyone be around atm?

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 5:54 pm AEST

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@outlander I am around hun, are you ok?

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 6:10 pm AEST

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i dont really know @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 6:13 pm AEST

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Someimtes we don't know what is wrong, we just have this feeling @outlander

Could it be that your are anxious about Friday? or has something happened today?

Here with you sis 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 6:19 pm AEST

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i dont know @Snowie
im not really feeling much atm. not really even feeling anxious about friday, that will prob change tomorrow when i realise its quite close .just seem to keep sinking, struggling to even 'float' now

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SnowieSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 6:22 pm AEST

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I understand hun, floating is sometimes hard @outlander

Just stay with me tonight sweetheart.

What have you done today?

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Unknown userMember15 July 2020, 6:23 pm AEST

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Hey little one, I am sitting with you for a while. Sending you a gentle hug. @outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 6:24 pm AEST

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I'm here for you too, @outlander ...

@outlander wrote:
just seem to keep sinking, struggling to even 'float' now

So sorry to hear 😥

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outlanderSenior Contributor15 July 2020, 6:32 pm AEST

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thank you @NatureLover @Former-Member

i havent really done much @Snowie i dont even want to watch tv anymore. theres always something needs doing or someone wanting something. guess im just tired or something. sister wants photos with the horses. i know why and its because the new horse will be coming and she takes credit for it now too. seems like ill just get further and further pushed out. its starting to make me regret saying that i would buy her.
maybe i should go im not very good company for anyone right now.

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