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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 July 2020, 8:12 pm AEST

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thats good @Snowie
ill bet the snow gear takes up quite abit of room though so one or 2 loads will fill the house. hopefully some dry enough overnight so you can maybe do one more load in the morning

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 July 2020, 8:30 pm AEST

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Yes the snow gear takes up lots of space, have clothes drapped everywhere!

Will say goodnight hun, am buggered here. I hope you are able to get some sleep tonight @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor10 July 2020, 8:34 pm AEST

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goodnight sis @Snowie 💜💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor10 July 2020, 8:35 pm AEST

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Goodnight @Snowie. I'm glad you got to continue your holiday 💕💕💕

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 8:52 am AEST

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Good morning @outlander , another busy day for you today, I think... Am really hoping that you do get that restful day tomorrow. Hoping today goes well and you're not in too much pain...

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 12:52 pm AEST

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thanks @NatureLover my migraine settled enough to go do the morning horses so they are done. have 2 this afternoon but i dont think itll take to long. just put on a load of washing cause me and pop are actually running out now-oopsy. trying to keep on top of my headache though so it doesnt get worse . just watching a movie for now though while waiting on the washing to finish.

hope your days been good too

@Snowie @Sans911 @Shaz51 @Eve7 @Maggie @Former-Member @Lee82 💜💜🧡

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 1:30 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear about your migraine - gosh, yet another pain for you 😥 @outlander

I'm glad it settled enough for you to do the morning horses. Hope it settles further as the day goes on. 💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 3:02 pm AEST

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@outlander read your post in the WR.

Here if you need to chat hun.

Sitting with you 💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 5:50 pm AEST

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thanks @Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor11 July 2020, 5:51 pm AEST

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thank you @NatureLover

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