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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 July 2020, 11:57 am AEST

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do you want to talk about it @Former-Member more then happy to listen. have been missing you

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Unknown userMember09 July 2020, 5:49 pm AEST

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Thank you very much for that offer little one, I was about to reply to you when I got an unexpected visitor. That never goes well when they don't let me know that they are coming, to make it worse before the first visitor left a second unexpected one turned up. No down time to get myself together between them has left me a complete mess.

Hope your day was ok @outlander

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor09 July 2020, 6:13 pm AEST

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Oh gosh, @Former-Member ...I can relate. I hope your evening is peaceful and you can recover quietly...

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Unknown userMember09 July 2020, 7:25 pm AEST

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Hi @NatureLover , I am ready to sleep now and am hoping for a long one. I hope your day was ok.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor09 July 2020, 7:33 pm AEST

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I'm hoping for a long sleep for you too, Nikki... @Former-Member

My day was OK, yes thanks 🙂

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 July 2020, 8:41 pm AEST

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Oh thats really tough @Former-Member have you had a chance to breathe and settle abit now?
Im around for a while if you need 💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor09 July 2020, 8:42 pm AEST

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@NatureLover hoping your days been ok too 💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor10 July 2020, 9:11 am AEST

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I read on another thread that your days have all blown out to be way too busy this week...am really sorry to hear. I wish something would ease for you @outlander ...sending a gentle warm hug.

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MaggieSenior Contributor10 July 2020, 2:44 pm AEST

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@outlander 💞💞💞💞

@NatureLover 💞💞💞

@Former-Member @Snowie @Sans911 and everyone. 💞💞💞

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SnowieSenior Contributor10 July 2020, 5:52 pm AEST

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@outlander thinking of you hoping today was ok 💟💟

@Maggie @NatureLover @Former-Member 💜💛💙

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