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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 8:58 am AEST

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Good morning @outlander , how did you sleep? I hope it was better than the night before...

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 9:24 am AEST

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Morning @NatureLover ❤ not much sleep here again as usual

@Sans911 💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 9:32 am AEST

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@outlander wrote:
Morning @NatureLover ❤ not much sleep here again as usual

Bugger, @outlander 😞

Do you have a busy day today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 9:38 am AEST

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Not this morning, just kids and horses this arvo @NatureLover i had to say no to doing something i actually like doing today 😞 but i dont have much left in the tank and now another issue has popped up since yesterday so its wearing me down

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 9:45 am AEST

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Oh no, not another issue for you to have to deal with 😞

That's a bugger you've had to knock back something enjoyable as well @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 9:59 am AEST

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Its ok i honestly cant get out of bed this morning anyway @NatureLover ive put a movie on to watch for now.
My house is total mess though so was hoping to get some cleaning done. Not at this rate i dont think.
I have taken pain relief as prescribed by specialist so hopefully will be up and running by this arvo at least enough to do thr horses.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 10:03 am AEST

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OK, well the pain relief and the movie and the warm bed sound good @outlander

Hoping you feel better enough this afternoon to do what you need to. 💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 10:04 am AEST

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Thanks @NatureLover

What have you got planned for today?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 10:08 am AEST

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A trip to the library for books before lockdown starts tomorrow, other than that, catching up on walks outside as it's been too wet recently, and setting up the new computer with lots of little stuff. A fairly nice day, apart from the 'going out' business of course, lol.

Stay warm @outlander ...

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outlanderSenior Contributor08 July 2020, 10:14 am AEST

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i hope you get many books to help you get through lockdown and whatever else you need as well @NatureLover

are you in victoria?

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