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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 8:40 am AEST

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Morning everyone 💜💚

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SnowieSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 4:05 pm AEST

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@outlander @Sans911 💜💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 6:44 pm AEST

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@Snowie @Sans911 @NatureLover @Former-Member @Lee82 @Eve7 and everyone

i finally have my admission sorted out. once the specilist put the papers through it was sorted very quickly.the only thing that i have left to do is the day before i need to ring to see what time i need to come in and also to arrange payment but ive asked if i can sort the payment out beforehand so that i dont have to worry about anything on the day.

@Sans911 wondering if you may have found out whats happening with that counselling service yet?

@Snowie when do you leave for the snow?

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 6:59 pm AEST

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Great news, I'm so pleased to hear, @outlander !

Is the surgery soon? (No need to answer if it might identify you or anything)

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 7:04 pm AEST

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2 weeks away @NatureLover so not to long to wait. its right at the end of the school holidays so we wont have to worry about pickups/drop offs and the middle sister can watch the youngest sister if we need while mum drops in and then picks me up and drops me home and it will give me time to notify the owners of the horses i look after that i will be having the day off.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 7:11 pm AEST

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I'm really pleased to hear all that, @outlander ! Finally some good news for you! 🙂

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SnowieSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 7:14 pm AEST

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Great news hun, glad the admission is finally sorted for you. Sorting out payment before hand is a good idea too. That way you can just concentrate on you @outlander

We leave for the snow Saturday morning, will be a long drive but worth it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 7:18 pm AEST

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about time too @NatureLover @Snowie its been abit frustrating up until this point

not long to go now then @Snowie im sure your all looking forward to going! i dont know if you can take pics but it would be pretty good to see some when you get back if you can

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 July 2020, 7:35 pm AEST

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how are you going tonight? @NatureLover

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Lee82Senior Contributor02 July 2020, 7:38 pm AEST

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That's fantastic news @outlander can I ask what you have being admitted for? No need to answer of you don't feel comfortable answering. X I'm so sorry I haven't been on loop lately. Just haven't have the mental capacity to be here. 😔

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