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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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I am sad to hear how hard it is for you tonight @outlander

Are you able to curl up on the couch with a blankie until your Mum returns?

Sending lots of love and care

💙🧡💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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The little one is in bed saying she cant sleep cause she has a headache and isnt helping my anxiety out. Hopefully she will be asleep soon (usually 10pm is the latest she lasts) cause she cant have anymore pain meds till 1130 now.
The other is doing school work in the lounge room. She will go to bed soon when shes finished.

I'm just watching modern family now. Its ok you and everyone has helped me get through today so far so thank you @Lee82

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thank you, It has been a really hard day @Eve7 im tired but i also am to scared to sleep because of it. I prob wont sleep till the littlest one is settled or at least till mums home to take care of her. I think she will be asleep soon though.

Im just watching modern family and then the big bang theory is on afterwards

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Well an hour and half to go babe and then you can relax and look after you. That is a lot of responsibility to put someone so young hun I wish you had some more help with everything. You deserve it. If I could I would come over and help out as much as I could. But I am glad to hear we have been helping you a little @outlander. words are all we have here and hope that you will be ok babe.

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Here with you lil Sis @outlander 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕

Hugs for my sweet angel 😇

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 @Sans911
Littlest ones asleep for past 20 minutes. Hopefully she stays asleep now. Mums partner is actually home at 1030 so ill be home about 11 instead of midnight now thankfully.
Im sure he can give her pain med if she wakes up and needs it but i know she wont ask him if hes in bed but im trying to put it out of my mind. Mum will be home about 1130 maybe abit sooner so its only an hour.

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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She will be fine for a little while babe. It's only a headache. If she has just fallen asleep I'm sure she will stay asleep for a while before waking up again. You are so sweet for being so concerned about your little sis @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah i think she will be @Lee82 i just have health anxiety which is most predominent when it comes to the kids. It stems from previous traumas and having to work out ways to be protective (plus during one trauma i couldnt protect her) so its like i over reactive to everything now.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im back home now, I think I just need to be distracted till 1130 when I know mum is home. im going to see about having a shower

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@Sans911 @Lee82 @Eve7 are you guys ok tonight?
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