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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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Not good @outlander so not staying - too hard right now. Hope you get some respite tonight

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that's ok @Zoe7 ill be up for a while if you cant sleep and need some company- you can tag me

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Sorry @outlander @Former-Member - I was resting in bed with Mr A when we were chatting earlier & I dropped off to sleep. Which I have done a few times this week. Then I wake up a few hours later & can't go back to sleep for a few hours. So I have a hot milky Milo now, and I'm going to do some colouring in after this.

Yes, I do grumble with medical shows that try to portray reality and get it so wrong. But I don't usually make a scene about it. That or just don't watch the shows at all. A lot of programs now have a medical person to help them be more accurate.

And no @Former-Member not into sport at all. I'm not sure if you're aware but I don't own a television. Haven't had one for about 4years now. I do watch some catch up TV, like Ambulance, some police shows and docos on sbs or abc. And I have Netflix as well. I was hopeless at sports at school, so I often used to make some excuses or skip out. I can't run as it sets off my asthma, so walking & hiking are the most extreme sports I do!

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Unknown userMember

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Good morning little one, I really hope you are still sleeping at the moment and that your night wasn't to hard on you.

Just wanted to thank you again for last night and for all your support. Hope today is gentle with you.

💖🌻 @outlander 🌻💖

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911💜💜

Thats ok im glad your at least getting some sleep. A milo and colouring sounds like a nice way to chill out

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Have had around an hours sleep so far @Former-Member hoping for an extra hour or 2 but not really looking likely

Hoping you had better luck then i did 💖

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Unknown userMember

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Sorry you didn't get anywhere near enough sleep my friend and really hope that you have managed to fall back to sleep. Izzy's sp's work well amd I managed 5 hours. Hoping today is gentle with you @outlander

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Just sending you a pamper package @outlander

hugs 🤗 roses 🌹 hot drink 🥤 warm blankie, massage 💆‍♀️ blue sky 🌌 and sunshine ☀️

Eve

💙🧡💙

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thank you @Eve7

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Hey lil Sis @outlander I just what's been happening for you. How awful. Please try to do some nice in self care for yourself tonight. Whether your sisters are with you or not.

Although your abuser yelled at you, they can't hurt you any more. You are stronger and better than they will ever be. Remember that.

Hugs and hugs sweetie 💕 💕 💕
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