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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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A busy afternoon @outlander. I'm tired now. Busy weekend coming up for me for a change. I can't wait until Monday to have a rest.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im sorry the meds have made you sick and tired @Eve7 hope as your body gets use to it it becomes better..


@Sans911 a busy weekend is a change but i hope its good stuff your looking forward to....

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Lee82your welcome to come join us over here too if you are still online?

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OwlunarSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander @Sans911 @Eve7 @Snowie @Former-Member

Does anyone mind if I jump in here

Women's health issues are no fun and I can relate - I had endometriosis and cysts on my ovary - i was dismayed when my daughter and grand-daughter developed the same problems - I thought they inherited it from me but learned my sister - her daughter and my brother's daughter all suffer the same things - my father's mother was always sick and I don't know any details but I think we all inherited it from her - has any one else shared this as a family issue?

Dec

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Unknown userMember

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Hey little one, I am sorry I haven't been of much support to you this week and am sorry things still aren't getting easier for you. 💜Nikki

💜🦖 @outlander 🦖💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Former-Member @Owlunar @Sans911 @Eve7 @Snowie @Lee82 @Former-Member @Maggie @NatureLover

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I don't know if I have endo yet though its suspected @Owlunar
no one in my immediate family have it either, im just the unlucky one.
maybe it wont matter so much since the next options are basically going to take away fertility anyway. didn't really have a good chance in having kids anyway though.

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Unknown userMember

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@outlander Hey Li'l One ... you've been very quiet today. I hope that's an indication that you are taking some time for much needed self care. But knowing you and your many commitments ... I suspect thats not the case.

Lots of us are here to talk or vent to if that will help. I know you have big decisions to make, and I know they are probably life changing ones. So I dont envy your decision. I know we had discussions last year around the possibility that you may never be able to have children of your own, due to the disorder you suffer from. But being confronted now with needing to make a decision which will make possible into im-possible, is a real biggie. I guess it comes down to quality of life Li'l One. Living with a body which does not play the game as it should, is incredibly difficult. And there are alternatives to producing your own child ... adoption, fostering, surrogacy. Any irreversible decision you may make, does not have to rule you out of being a Mum in future. And I think you would make a very wonderful Mum too. I'm here for you if you wish to talk, or I am also here if you just need some company.

@Former-Member @Owlunar @Sans911 @Eve7

Sherry 💕

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Unknown userMember

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Ooops sorry @outlander we were both posting at the same time. 🌺

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