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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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it is a little scary sometimes but i know its one of my warning signs. if its happening more often or for longer so like dissociating the whole time during the drive and coming home rather then zoning out for a few minutes here and there then its a sign that things are really slipping.
im sorry shes stopped talking to Sean, perhaps having a female support worker would be helpful in learning where her head is at. most 16 yr old esp female would prefer to talk to someone of the same gender as them. the horse therapy might be helpful for you all too, just a thought anyway...

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Maggie
how are you holding up?

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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Holding up, but just @outlander , like so many atm.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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mm it is quite tough atm @Maggie even the forums have a different feel lately.

can i help you with anything? happy to listen if you want to talk about anything at all

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MaggieSenior Contributor

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Gosh you’re a sweetheart @outlander.💞💞 Thanks for the offer, I’m to muddled atm, twisted kind of stuff.

Yes, definitely a different feel here atm. Big struggling going on everywhere, makes it hard.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that is ok @Maggie I get it. the muddled twisty stuff is so hard. if you do want to talk though please do tag me, I am happy to listen. for now I will send gentle hugs just cause 🤍

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Thinking of you @outlander @Maggie @Lee82 @Snowie @NatureLover @mudsum 💜

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Thank you @Former-Member , thinking of you too and sending good vibes and wishes...

Oh gosh @outlander have just read of your bad day and the depression and your meltdown and the fact that you can't get enough support that you need. Am so very sorry to hear. 😞 I wish, wish, wish you could get more support. You're constantly giving out to others...I wish some people in your offline life would give out to you and actually just take care of you 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander sis 💌💌💌💌 Sending you lots of love and hugs hun

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Unknown userMember

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Sending you hugs little one. Are you safe? 💜Nikki

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