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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 9:07 pm AEST

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have you got the nice nurse on tonight? @Snowie

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SnowieSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 9:11 pm AEST

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hehe @outlander not sure if the nice nurse is on tonight. Need to go have a look in the nurses station!!

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 9:13 pm AEST

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youll have to go stalk the nurses station and let me know @Snowie 😁

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SnowieSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 9:19 pm AEST

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I went and did some stalking @outlander 😁

Only one of the nurses looks familiar and they are nice so that is good.

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 9:26 pm AEST

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lol @Snowie
well at least one is nice!
is that the one that has the same name as your D?

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SnowieSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 9:33 pm AEST

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No not that one @outlander they havent worked today. Its another one on that is nice tonight.

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outlanderSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 9:37 pm AEST

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as long as they are nice @Snowie that's the main thing

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor01 June 2020, 11:36 pm AEST

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@outlander Hey outlander for some reason I didnt get notification of you post ..... anyway I went searching and found it :). Poor hunny I wish I could be there for you. You must feel over whelmed with it all. Have you got anyone going with you on Friday? and what is a doppler test?xxx

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Unknown userMember02 June 2020, 9:47 am AEST

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Hey @outlander Just read your Worry Room post. 😔

So why is it that you're the worst person in the world this time?

Surely not because you havent yet got a birthday card for your Pop?

Perhaps its something your mother said when she visited this morning.

Whatever it is Li'l One ... you know you are not the worst person in the world at all. In fact you're about as far from that as its possible to be. Total opposite end of the spectrum. Try to let any criticisms or put downs slide off like water off a ducks back. You must know by now that negativity and belittling is their modus operandi. All designed to keep you where they want you ... doing what they should be doing. You are an easy target right now @outlander ... very unwell, emotionally and physically vulnerable, with worries galore and lots of decisions and planning to be done.

I know its an almost impossible request sweetie .. but please try to ignore what they are telling you. We know, and you should know, that its not fact.

Sherry 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 June 2020, 10:15 am AEST

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@Former-Member
no wasn't mum she didn't come this morning.

lets see...
-the milk is the wrong sort even though he is the one that brought it yesterday.
-the wallet I brought him doesn't have he little button to keep it closed so that's wrong
-the sunglasses he doesn't like
-pops friend rung him to say happy birthday and all he could do was ramble on about how I never put credit on his phone so he doesn't ring anyone and he doesn't go anywhere because if he breaks down he cant ring anyone (he has credit but he doesn't use it so I don't always put it on straight away)
- he made a tea for himself had 2 sips then comes out and tips it out because he doesn't like it

-told him to stop spitting in the sink or if he does to at least wash it down the sink but no, I go in there this morning and im nearly vomiting because I didn't clean it yesterday (for the same reason) and its worst today because he never washes it down the sink. (makes me gag thinking about it so I wont say anymore)

I haven't got him a birthday card yet, ive only been up out of bed since 9am (ive been awake most of the night) and don't have the energy to go down just yet so I feel bad about it cause I should've gotten it yesterday
and to make things worse some of my start up business things are sold and are being picked up this morning 😞
I was also suppose to go and do pathology tests this morning but because I had a tea I cant go down. if I only have water till this arvo I should be able to do that, im struggling a lot with my stomach this morning so im not sure if I can handle needles again yet.

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