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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:40 pm AEST

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Thanks for taking a look @Zahlia at least we know its there (somewhere!)
Ill check in tomorrow and see if someone from IT support can have a look.
Also having issues uploading pics to certain threads as well but they change daily ie tonight i cant upload to a specific thread but could yesterday 🤦‍♀️ might be the glitch thats happening atm

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Eve7Senior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:47 pm AEST

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Good night

@Former-Member @outlander @Faith-and-Hope @greenpea and everyone else

I am just about asleep

Talk soon 💙🧡

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:47 pm AEST

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Goodnight @Eve7 sleep well 💚

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:47 pm AEST

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@Faith-and-Hope 💙 you going ok?

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Eve7Senior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:53 pm AEST

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You too @outlander

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor28 May 2020, 5:21 am AEST

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@Former-Member Sherry feeling a dark little pea this morning :(. Walls are closing in.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FD2SfQJOK08

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Unknown userMember28 May 2020, 5:33 am AEST

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Sorry to hear that @Bunniekins 😞💗

I notice you've been posting a few music videos around the forums this morning. 👍 Does music help to keep those walls from closing in on you? 🎵🎶📀 What else is helpful? Are you up to a walk today? That is, if you have recovered from being outsprinted by your 82yo neighbour. 😀🏃

Sherry 💕

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor28 May 2020, 5:40 am AEST

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@Former-Member 🙂 yes music really helps me cope with things. I dont know where I would be without music I would really miss it as it is so therapeutic to me :). Yes have been for a walk with 82 year old neighbour and managed to keep up with her . Here is another son which I am listening to atm says it all really.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YZQWTnrJMS0

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor28 May 2020, 4:24 pm AEST

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Sorry @outlander Did not see your invite til now.

Love your gentle candle pic.

@BunniekinsHugs. I used to love Icehouse!

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Lee82Senior Contributor28 May 2020, 7:01 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander how was your day? How you doing today?

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