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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 10:33 pm AEST

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2 steps forward is amazing! @Eve7 that's really awesome to hear!

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Unknown userMember27 May 2020, 10:52 pm AEST

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Well @outlander ... finished my tea. Think I'll head off to bed early tonight. Hit the sack before midnight for the first time in a long time. Can barely keep my eyes open right now, so bed is probably best place to be.

Good night @outlander and anyone else around @Eve7 @Faith-and-Hope @Bunniekins etc. 🌺

Thanks for keeping my company tonight. 😔

Sherry 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 10:52 pm AEST

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u holding up ok? @Former-Member

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 10:53 pm AEST

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goodnight @Former-Member
im still trying to get through mine and watching criminal minds. think ill be in bed soon too.
hope you can sleep ok

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 10:57 pm AEST

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@Former-Member
can I ask who is on tonight please?

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ZahliaSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:05 pm AEST

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Hi @outlander

Its me until midnight then there is a handover

Zahlia

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:07 pm AEST

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hi @Zahlia
good to know, its been a while since you've been online

how are you going?

can I ask if you know whats happening with my pictures? I tried to upload a new profile picture yesterday and then today and it said its been successful but it hasn't been approved. it doesn't normally take 24 hours for things to appear so im wondering if its coming through to you guys? would you be able to check for me?

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ZahliaSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:12 pm AEST

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I'm going alright thank you @outlander, as good as we can be during this abnormal time in the world (such a strange time).

Sure thing I can have a look for you. Can you let me know what the new profile picture is of?

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:15 pm AEST

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oh yes it is a strange time we are living in atm @Zahlia im glad your going ok though

thank you, Its a picture of a candle

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ZahliaSenior Contributor27 May 2020, 11:35 pm AEST

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Thanks @outlander so glad you are also doing ok

I've had a look and can see the candel picture you uploaded but it hasn't come up as your profile picture as yet (very odd). I'm not 100% with all the technical IT stuff, so it might be best if one of the mods during the day tomorrow has a look into it. Are you able to chase it up tomorrow? It should get all sorted then 🙂

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