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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 9:19 pm AEST

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You havent failed hun at your business, you are just running it a different way to save money. Sounds like a wise @outlander to me.

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 9:21 pm AEST

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Thanks @Snowie

I know you may also be feeling the same as me with Sans, hopefully she will come back sooner rather then later.

How are you going?

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Unknown userMember26 May 2020, 9:52 pm AEST

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Yes I know, me too @outlander @Snowie 💔

Really sad about Sans. I just dont understand.

Re your business @outlander ... Not a failure at all, I agree with @Snowie on that. Just a new business model. You can always step things back up again when the time and circumstances are right.

Sherry 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 9:52 pm AEST

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im here if you want to talk about anything too @Former-Member xo

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 9:55 pm AEST

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people reach their own limits I guess @Former-Member I will miss her heaps but I know she has offline supports and just needs to regroup again. hopefully shes not gone to long though.

thanks, yeah maybe. I don't know if ill bring it back to life. might just use the fb marketplace or something when I feel like making the items up. the items just aren't popular enough to upkeep unfortunately.

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Unknown userMember26 May 2020, 10:57 pm AEST

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Yes its very true that we all have our limits @outlander . I guess its a good thing that Sans was self-aware enough to recognise that she was close to hers. Im glad she has good offline supports, and Im sure she will be fine. But I miss her already 😩

Thanks for offer to talk Sweetie. I would, but its not anything I can talk about here. I would get myself in strife.

Im heading off to bed shortly, I need sleep. Good night Little One. 😴

Sherry 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 11:04 pm AEST

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Yeah i know @Former-Member very much the same

Will be up for a while. Im advertising excess stock supplies so lots of new feelings atm.

Hope you get some sleep tonight

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Unknown userMember26 May 2020, 11:13 pm AEST