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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 8:19 pm AEST

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thanks @Former-Member @Snowie

just really stressed

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 8:21 pm AEST

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Here for you and with you hun @outlander 💌💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 8:31 pm AEST

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I don't really know what to say @Snowie things are just abit of a mess.
what makes it worse is that even though I feel alone I cant stand being around people either. pop is sitting in the lounge room and has been all day and I just feel so annoyed at it. sounds stupid doesn't it. just feel crowded here and no space to call my own since he has a habit of going into my room. even in the lounge room I have my own little corner and as soon as I move he sits there and leans all over my computer and knocks off my wifi so If I move I have to move everything.

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 8:32 pm AEST

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he just wont shut up. I cant watch any tv show without commentary over everything. if I don't speak then he gets the shites but I just don't want to talk to him so then he rambles about rubbish

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 8:46 pm AEST

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it doesn't sound stupid at all hun, you need that personal space for yourself too @outlander , just like you give your pop.

Sounds a bit suffocating there tonight. Can you take yourself to your room or will he come in there too?

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 8:50 pm AEST

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I wanted to watch the tv show that's on @Snowie otherwise I think id already gone into the bedroom. its honestly always suffocating here now.
I think it finishes at 9 oclock so ill prob head into the bedroom then and if I can be bothered possibly a shower.

I was thinking about having a cup of tea but I think dinner has set enough nausea and stuff off so will have to give that a miss too.

sorry for whinging

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 8:53 pm AEST

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Sorry to hear everything's so crap @outlander ...sending you hugs... ❤

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SnowieSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 8:55 pm AEST

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it's not whinging hun, what you are saying is very valid and very true. You are trying to deal with so much at the moment @outlander

Better to get it out here then bottle it up

A shower and bed sounds good to me

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 9:07 pm AEST

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thanks @NatureLover

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outlanderSenior Contributor26 May 2020, 9:13 pm AEST

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yeah I guess so @Snowie
honestly my bedroom is even starting to feel like a dungeon.
I made the decision to close down the business I started as well. its costing more to try and keep it running then what there are purchases. I mean I get an influx every now and then but not even close to what is covering the cost.
I will still advertise the items I think but only when I have the items available so instead of trying to keep stocks up I can just make them as I get orders in/premake when its usually abit busier. just another thing to ad to the failed list I suppose.

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