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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Hey lil Sis @outlander I've been drifting a bit so I'm going to head off to sleep. It's been real nice to have you back 'here' today. I know that nothing might have changed for you and the way you feel right now about but you have reached out & connected back here with us. Big Sis hugs ❤️ 💜 💙 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 would you still be up?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Goodnight sis, sleep well
Give Mr A hugs for me too @Sans911 😴💞

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Are you ok @outlander re 2nd last post? ^^^

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah, its just one of those nights again @Sans911
Ill be ok though just going to put a movie on to watch till i fall asleep.



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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Are you sure? You've worried me a bit so I've 'woken' a little. And no, don't apologise. If you want to talk about something I can hang around for a while.

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Its ok sis, you can sleep. Im just watching a movie. Things are controlled right now
@Sans911 💌

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander Sweetheart you deserve to be back in your own thread, the one your created, but I know why you cannot atm ..... I dont know what is to be done. Am here with you though and hope that I can somehow cheer you up a bit. Love peaxxx

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Its ok little pea, here is ok i created this one too but a few yrs ago before some members left. its Still has a fitting title and everything. I dont believe i own any thread and always welcome others to talk wherever they feel comfortable, that other thread just felt like my safe place to talk and retreat too esp with my story being there but its ok, others need a place to connect and talk too so this will be the new thread without having to actually make a new thread up. I dont think ill be back there except to support others if i feel ok to do that because of the content and the vibe is very different to what felt safe for me. Others feel safe to talk and bond there though and i wouldnt want to discourage that. This thread heres ok to talk on even though it might take time.
Thanks for being here 💚 @Bunniekins

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BunniekinsSenior Contributor

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@outlander Ahhh the pea isnt going anywhere.I spoke with my support worker today on a bush walk about this and that and one of the things discussed was the sane forums and I sang its praises 🙂 I have met so many kind and beautiful people on here and you are one of those people. xxx

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