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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Has been ok @outlander Just watching Shrek 2 on tv, not much else on.

Will probably end up watching BBT though.

How are you going today sweetheart?

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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How did I miss that news @outlander? How do you everything?

Great news @Snowie.

I love being here with you both.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Sans911

How are you going today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im watching victorious and then sam and cat @Snowie thr kids like them and honestly there could be so much worse. They arent to bad tbh.

How did ect go?

Im alright, tired and usual pains but other then that im alright. Have kids till 1030 tonight

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Sans911 its cause im still a guide so i got tagged otherwise i prob wouldve missed it too 😏

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I love being here with you too @Sans911 ❤

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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ECT went ok @outlander slept a fair bit of the afternoon coming of the anaesthetic. Gave me another headache but nothing some pain meds don't help.

Had a student nurse on today. Saying "don't be depressed, be happy" to me does not help me 😒It just makes me feel worse (I did tell her that) I don't think she will end up working in mental health!!

Other then her, the nurses have been nice.

Have pain meds helped you today?

Hopefully the kids keep themselves occupied and you can have some time to yourself 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Mm no i dont think she will pick mh as her sort of area but then she might learn pretty quick at what not and what to say @Snowie im sorry that really wouldn't have been helpful. So glad the other nurses have been good though.

Havent really taken an pain meds tbh, i usualy only take them at night and morning when its the worst. Thats usually when ive eaten so thats usually when i need it.

The little one will be in bed in another hour or so and the other one will prob be doing some of the homework she has to do. Its usually when i have them till midnight that it drags on

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Mmmm no it wasn't helpful @outlander I don't think she will be saying that again. I know they have to learn somehow but some common sense would be good 🤔

I'm glad you don't have them to midnight then hun, 10:30 is late enough.

Are you at your house or your mum's? Do they go back to school soon?

D goes back Monday to school and S goes back the week after. She is looking forward to it and gets to see all her freinds again which is good for them.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Some people lack common sense @Snowie 🤦‍♀️
We were at my house from 130 till 7ish but at mums house so kids could have their showers and hold their pets before bed.
Both kids go back on Monday here. They both want to go, not sure how long thatll last but they said they never thought theyd say they miss school lol.
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