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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I am not sure hun @outlander

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Personally honey I think you are better off getting health insurance if this is going to be an ongoing problem but I think perhaps waiting for now is a good idea till you know if this is going to be one off fix however if it's an ongoing issue then you have to wait the waiting periods. No matter it's a conundrum m. I so sorry there is no easy solution. I also think you should really think about presenting yourself at a hospital in ED with the symptoms you are having because if you do it that way no matter what has to be done ie test op etc will be done through Medicare.

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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reposting because I forgot to tag you @outlander

Personally honey I think you are better off getting health insurance if this is going to be an ongoing problem but I think perhaps waiting for now is a good idea till you know if this is going to be one off fix however if it's an ongoing issue then you have to wait the waiting periods. No matter it's a conundrum m. I so sorry there is no easy solution. I also think you should really think about presenting yourself at a hospital in ED with the symptoms you are having because if you do it that way no matter what has to be done ie test op etc will be done through Medicare.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ill have a look at that insurance company thanks @Snowie 👍🙏❤

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I am also with HCF and I agree they are expsenive but I am reluctant to change right now just in case I need to use it for my own hospital admition. They covered everything for me when I went to hospital my first and second time. First being 6 weeks and second being 4 weeks then covered my CBT and other classes I was taking after I got out. As well as my ECT. That was all covered too.

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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posting again sorry @outlander I keep forgetting to tag you. Brain is not functioning. New meds are screwing my head up:

I am also with HCF and I agree they are expsenive but I am reluctant to change right now just in case I need to use it for my own hospital admition. They covered everything for me when I went to hospital my first and second time. First being 6 weeks and second being 4 weeks then covered my CBT and other classes I was taking after I got out. As well as my ECT. That was all covered too.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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that's why im tossed @Lee82 if I get it now then ill be able to get the full benefits by this time next yr even if it means I have to pay out of pocket for now, the longer I wait the longer itll take to reach the 12 months mark.
but if I wait and it turns out its something that can be fixed and wont be ongoing then I could get a cheaper policy and rule out digestive needs. I know I can always upgrade though so I could maybe look at the cheapest policy and then upgrade if I need to..
it really is tricky. I speak with the gastroenterologist on Friday next week so I guess I could at least wait till then to see what he thinks itll be.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Ive got to go, pops growling ay the kids becauss they are just painting their nails 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander @Lee82 @NatureLover @Sans911 and anyone else around.

I hope you are all having a good night.

Will be around for awhile

Much love to all those that need it 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hows your night going? @Snowie

So glad your going to be a CG too 💜💙

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