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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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me too @Appleblossom it was abit upsetting to me when i had been able to get back online

i dont mind a quiet birthday, though its typically classed a milestone. my nurse that i have here she was very lovlely and surprised me by stopping in with a nice card and flowers as well.

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Yes @outlander @Eve7 @Snowie @Appleblossom @Shaz51

I really feel for all the very dedicated and hardworking former CGs.💕

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thanks @Emelia8

what are you up to today?

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Just back home from a walk along the river in town with Hannah 🐕‍🦺 @outlander . First fine day we have had here in over a week. So a good long walk. Then a local cafe for a chai latte and a cake. 😊

Really sorry to hear about your health issues sweetheart. That's really tough 😞💞. But if anyone can make the best of a bad situation, if confident you can 💕. You have dealt with adversity all your life it seems. Life is just so unfair. Stay strong, as I know you are 😘

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aww that sounds nice.

im house sitting at the moment and have a couple of lovely of dogs that im looking after. the weathers been unpredicable here too, its nice here today but pretty hot now.

thank you, it costs a fortune but im very lucky to have a nurse here thats really supportive. i dont get to see her much but i know she genuinely cares

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Hi @outlander

I haven't really said anything about the CG but did notice it awhile ago.

I just read about your upcoming surgery. I hope everything goes ok for you.

I hope your day is going ok. Been raining here but still in the mid 20's.

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@outlander you are good with animals

Think they stopped the Community Elders as well.

Hope you are both doing well enough.

@Snowie @Emelia8

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thanks @Snowie

has been so humid and muggy here today after a few days rain. expecting it to be in the 30s tomorrow, not looking forward to working outside in that heat! i was going to take the dogs im dogsitting to the beach in the morning but i start work early so wont have time. plsu they need a bath afterwards as well as theyre inside dogs and dont want them all over the furniture afterwards without a bath

anything planned for you tomorrow?

what are you up to tomorrow @Appleblossom

@Emelia8 sorry i forgot to tag you in above post!

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I hope work goes well tomorrow @outlander

It is S's birthday tomorrow so will either go out for lunch or dinner. Probably dinner as he'll sleep the day away!! With him working so much now, it'll be nice to spend some time with him.

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@outlander just church choir. Trying to keep things calm while my nervous system has gone haywire.

@Snowie @Emelia8 its been such a long time we have known each other.

Thanks for the company over the years lovely ladies.

Gently bently

Apple

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