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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 7:48 pm AEST

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It is a hard time for many @outlander

How is your pain tonight hun?

Would you like to talk about anything?

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:05 pm AEST

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pains still the same, its always so much worse after ive eaten @Snowie so very small meals it is, some days can barely manage a sandwhich in the entire day.

I don't really think theres much to talk about sis, its just a tough crappy time atm.
a distraction might be nice if you just wanna chat?

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Sans911Senior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:27 pm AEST

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Evening @outlander @Snowie @NatureLover

I arrived about 15minutes ago to my uncles town. My mother is just making stir fry for dinner, and my uncle is about to go into his room for a meeting with his congregation (church).

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:29 pm AEST

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so glad your there safely @Sans911
time for some chillout time for you hey

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:30 pm AEST

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Thanks for letting us know you got there safely @Sans911

I hope you enjoy the company and have a good night catching up with your family 💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:41 pm AEST

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@Snowie are they allowing you to have longer visits now? I heard some restrictions are getting lifted so wondered if longer visiting hours might be allowed for you now too

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Sans911Senior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:47 pm AEST

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@outlander - did you get a response to your email? You don't need to go into detail here.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:49 pm AEST

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not yet @Sans911 its with the managers so im sure they'll respond as soon as they are online next. hopefully soon.

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:52 pm AEST

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Still no visitors allowed and only half an hour out per time @outlander Hoping restrictions ease soon so i can go out for longer.

I guess at least i can still see them. Better then nothing.

Watching Ambulance Australia at the moment. I like those emergency shows.

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 May 2020, 8:56 pm AEST

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that is a shame @Snowie hopefully it changes soon.

im watching the secrets she keeps atm, I was watching 2 and a half men.

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