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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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@outlander have read back a little

Sitting with you sweetheart. lots of love and hugs 💌💌

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im talking to her now @NatureLover I have no idea how its going to go

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sorry your days been stressful too @NatureLover did you want to talk about anything?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie ive sent me aunt a msg to ask if she may be able to help me with costs. im very nervous about the outcome and I wouldn't blame her for saying no as well.

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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@outlander wrote:
im talking to her now @NatureLover I have no idea how its going to go

Oh wow, you're so strong...good luck!

Thanks for asking but I am fine, relaxing now. ❤

@outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Well done on taking that step @outlander I know how hard it is to reach out for support.

You have done the right thing sweetie whatever the outcome is.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no luck she cant help either cause her works only part time now cause of the stupid pandemic otherwise she said she would've helped me out @NatureLover @Snowie

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NatureLoverSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear she can't help. 😣 Well done for having the courage to ask her.

I will keep my fingers crossed for another solution, as well as clarity from the doctors about whether you really need the gastroscopy @outlander ...

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear @outlander but I guess with covid people are short of money. At least she explained why she couldn't help instead of a flat out no.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Yeah its a really sucky time @Snowie @NatureLover
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