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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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rav3nSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 2:13 pm AEST

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OOPS! i confused yours and @Eve7's profile pictures!

sorry about that @outlander! i thought for a moment that the surgery plans might've changed if you were going vic but now that makes a lot more sense! how are you holding up so far? have you got supports popping in to help you out?

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 2:41 pm AEST

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no i dont have any supports @rav3n
just getting to and from the hospital trips. i dont have anyone else to help and cant afford the expensive supports so just using what i can,
not really doing anything anyway just watching tv.
have work in a few days so ill have to work out my driving situation

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rav3nSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 2:46 pm AEST

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that's tough, but it's really great that you're doing the best you can with what you've got @outlander sending you some extra love and strength 💙

what have you been watching? any good movies/tv shows popping up?

woah back to work so soon!? do you reckon you'll feel be work-ready by then? or is taking some extra time off not an option?

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 2:59 pm AEST

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i dont really have much of an option @rav3n
i worked double shifts every day for 3 months so i could take the 2 weeks off work and pay for the hospital admissions etc but i have to get back even in a reduced form to be able to afford my next 2 weeks rent and groceries.
i have a reduced role or night shifts so theyre 'easier' for a little bit so i can work.

not really re movies. i did watch the new k-pop movie, lilo and stitch movie and the new how to train your dragon movie and they were ok. lilo and stitch was a let down for me though considering thats one of my favourite disney movies!
i am watching a series called walking with dinosaurs at the moment and the institute as well

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 3:51 pm AEST

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Hi dear @outlander

Thanks for the update hon. So glad to hear from you.

I hope everything goes ok and going back to work isn't too hard for you hon

Sending lots of 💕💕🫂🫂

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rav3nSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 4:10 pm AEST

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@outlander ahh yes, that makes sense. i'm glad that they're giving you shifts where it'll be a lil easier, i hope you're able to take it slow and continue recovering okay.

is this the kpop demon hunters movie? i surprisingly really enjoyed that one! i feel the same about the new lilo and stitch movie - the original was my all time my favourite, the live action didn't even come close for me! and they cut out the ugly duckling scene (aka the scene that makes me bawl my eyes)! how to train your dragon is on my to-watchlist still, but i'm not keeping my expectations up. is the institute good? it looks quite interesting

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 5:13 pm AEST

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how are you going? @Snowie

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outlanderSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 5:14 pm AEST

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it is the new demon hunters one @rav3n it was a really good movie

i actually love the live action how to train your dragon. i thought it mights been crap going off the lilo live action but it was so much better and mimicked the original movie super closley

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SnowieSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 5:26 pm AEST

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I'm ok @outlander

Psych today and mum moved into a care place today.

Big day, big feels, very tired now.

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rav3nSenior Contributor20 Aug 2025, 5:58 pm AEST

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@outlander i hear they're going to make a second kpop demon hunter movie and potentially a spin off series too.

oh yay!! that's good to hear, a lot of the live action movies has been disappointing so at least i can look forward to that one.

hey @Snowie! i can't believe the move days already come by, i remember us chatting about how it felt so far away and now it's happened! i imagine there's lots of mixed feelings to process, hope you get chance tonight to rest up and let them flow by.

i'll be heading off now, take care lovelies!!

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