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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Glad it's in the one spot @outlander

Are they nice who you are with tomorrow?

He was lucky that he had the stroke whilst in hospital (had gone in there when he had a heart attack at home). Wish I could take Izzy with me. She loves him!

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no its incredibly boring @Snowie
i would rather be in a few different places then just be where i am tomorrow.
i can just think its saturday rates.

maybe he can come outside for a while if hubby can push him out and you can sit in the courtyard with izzy.
i know in my hospitals if you go outside to more the main areas in the parking lot, courtyard or roadside your allowed to have animals

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Sorry to hear that @outlander

I guess when you go to different places you have a bit of a variety.

I will have to look to see if we can take Izzy in. Thanks for that info.

Besides that I might be sitting in front of the heater. Meant to be 13 here tomorrow ❄️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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worth checking out @Snowie might be a nice visit for izzy too

its suppose to be alot of rain here the next few days so i might be using my heater too!

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Im doing a health science degree in nutrition and exercise @outlander . It is really interesting.

Its good you’re working in the one place tomorrow.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thats cool @Eve7

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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She's always at his fence waiting for pats and cuddles @outlander!!

I took so many clothes to the op shop today. S really has to stop growing. I had to get two pairs of his school pants taken down. He just keeps getting taller!

Have you got any plans for Sunday?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sounds like hes growing fast and having another growth spurt @Snowie

not really for sunday. hopefully its not raining to much and can go for a walk or catch up on some washing.

what about you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hoping its walking weather for you @outlander Any specific place you would go to?

No plans for Sunday as yet. Guess it depends if mum wants to go anywhere.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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no not really @Snowie depends on where i feel like on the day
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