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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi @rav3n

Thanks for the hello. I hope today's been good to you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hello @rav3n how are you

ive just been at work today @Snowie and went for a walk. looking froward to having a sleep in tomorrow

what about you

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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A sleep in sounds nice @outlander

I'm hoping I can too.

Got quite a lot done this morning, Washing, jigsaw puzzle, planting some plants, op shop run. This afternoon nothing. Been in bed.

D started a new job yesterday. Going out to people's homes and taking them out (to shops, chemist), or helping with bathing, cleaning, etc. She is doing it through a company, bit like my aged care.

She seems to really enjoy it. Better yet, it is local so no travelling needed.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sounds like a productive day @Snowie
i would like to be in bed but im still at work till 10 so wont get home till 11 tonight.

thats good for D

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Just dealing with a family issue @outlander otherwise ok. How are you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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im sorry to hear that @Eve7 families can be difficult sometimes

tired today looking for a sleep in tomorrow.
still working till 10 and wont get home till 11pm tonight

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hopefully the hours pass quickly @outlander

Any plans for tomorrow?

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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@outlander walk sounds refreshing, hope it wasn't too cold! some sleep would be nice for me too, fingers crossed we get to rest up this weekend!!

@Snowie sounds like a productive morning indeed! and congrats to D for her new jobs, sounds like a really rewarding role, i'm sure she'll build lots of lovely connections - and no travel is a bonus!

i'm doing good, been planning some interstate trip stuff (will be going gold coast and sydney later this year) which has been stressful, but it's almost complete!

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Ohhh @rav3n a trip sounds good. By yourself or with others?

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rav3nSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 sorry to hear about the family issues, hoping they get sorted soon. do you have much on this weekend?

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