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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Apr 2025, 8:50 pm AEST

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is anyone around

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ArraDreamingSenior Contributor13 Apr 2025, 9:00 pm AEST

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Nah

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tymeModerator13 Apr 2025, 9:01 pm AEST

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Yeppo @outlander , I'm here even if @ArraDreaming isn't

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Shaz51Senior Contributor13 Apr 2025, 9:05 pm AEST

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Hello @outlander 🥰

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outlanderSenior Contributor13 Apr 2025, 9:15 pm AEST

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how are you all

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tymeModerator13 Apr 2025, 9:38 pm AEST

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Not bad @outlander . I'm getting a little tired now though.

What time are your interviews/appointments?

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outlanderSenior Contributor17 Apr 2025, 5:25 pm AEST

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its been a very big few days here with job interviews and appointments @tyme i got another job at least out of it but i dont agree with anything the new psychiatrist has said and even a few people around me that read this report hes done have sad that it sounds nothing like me at all. its very disappointing for such expensive therapy. its quite upsetting.

hi to everyone here too. i know your all struggling right now. i hope to speak to you all soon. i guess its nice to vent even though no ones around

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tymeModerator17 Apr 2025, 8:07 pm AEST

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Congrats on securing another job @outlander . I hope you find this job better than what you have been going through. I know the 'spark' has left, but we can keep hoping.

As for the psych report, I'm sorry it wasn't what you expected. Were you able to give the psych feedback about how you felt about the report, therapy, etc?

Sitting with you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor18 Apr 2025, 3:36 pm AEST

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i hope so @tyme its casual but a big company that does my area plus surrounding areas with multiple facitilities including sil houses, sda house, respite only houses (meaning they just run when they get a few people for respite), day programs, community care etc so theres mulitple opportunities rather then just one specific set of area.
i finish setting up with them on tuesday cause of all the public holidays but they said if i get call outs to just sign in and out and we can sort the rest out on tuesday.

and no the psychiatrist has discharged me again at this stage but its left me confused. he already knows that. i already questioned everything. its usually why i take someone with me but tis time i couldnt afford the support services and had to go by myself.

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tymeModerator18 Apr 2025, 3:43 pm AEST

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Hey @outlander , thank you for sharing. At this point, any job, any change might feel like a break and a holiday for you, right?

You have been through so much, and I really hope things improve. Once again, I'm sorry for the disappointing psych appointment/therapy.

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