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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor24 Mar 2025, 5:13 pm AEDT

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hi everyone

how are you all

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Eve7Senior Contributor25 Mar 2025, 2:59 pm AEDT

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@outlander

💙💙💙

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Mar 2025, 10:52 am AEDT

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@outlander 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Mar 2025, 5:28 pm AEDT

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@Snowie @Eve7

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 Mar 2025, 2:18 pm AEDT

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Sending some 💌 @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor30 Mar 2025, 2:47 pm AEDT

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thank you @Snowie i hpe your going ok

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SnowieSenior Contributor30 Mar 2025, 2:54 pm AEDT

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Hey hon @outlander

What's happening with you?

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outlanderSenior Contributor02 Apr 2025, 5:55 pm AEDT

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i am struggling. struggling alot.
i am getting endless hallucinations that they are trying to work out the cause but as usual psychiatrist wait lists are through the roof and minimum wait is at least 9 months for most of them
im loosing more and more of everything because of an accident that caused so many issues that its a struggle now for me to function normally. im lossing work now because i cant keep up physically.

surrounded by people who constantly lie and ignore me. i send a text asking to hang out but one claims they are sick but i seen them within the same hour hanging out with other people in the location that i was in. texts left on sent and being ignored. i dont know why i even bother anymore.

life shouldnt be this way.

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Eve7Senior Contributor02 Apr 2025, 6:04 pm AEDT

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Hi @outlander , I am so sorry this is happening to you. Please know I care about you very much and I really wish I could pop by and take you out to dinner.

You are a beautiful person with many amazing qualities so please believe the truth about yourself.

Do you remember the song…”Lean on me, When you’re not strong, I’ll be your friend and help you carry on…”?

I am right here with you 💜💜💜💜

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JynxModerator02 Apr 2025, 6:39 pm AEDT

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@outlander oh hun, that is soooo hard 🥺

And being ignored and othered like that is DEEPLY painful. I know the pain, and it saddens me greatly to hear that you're experiencing it. And from an act that... honestly I'd expect from a high schooler. So awful.

I agree wholeheartedly with @Eve7 - you are a wonderful person, with a warm heart and a kind soul, and you deserve to have people in your life who can see that!!

Sending many hugs your way 🫂🫂

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