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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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avant-gardeSenior Contributor

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@outlander second service later in the day, but that's all that's planned, aside from tv

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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sounds like a relaxing day @avant-garde

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avant-gardeSenior Contributor

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@outlander church is anything but relaxing, it's one of my biggest triggers and baptism and I have a very complicated relationship

Normally it's just all about recovery afterwards and no one to really help me with that

But thanks

How about you

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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Relieved to hear you are now home and feeling a little better @outlander

Hi @Sans911 lovely to see you around. Always a pleasure 💕. Thanks too for giving a thumbs up to a post on my thread 😊. I was told last night that the photos I posted had not come through as of last night. Can I ask if the 2 photos of Hannah are thru now? I can't tell, because they appear fine to me, but apparently not to others.

I'm okay thanks @outlander , but it's very hot here today. Waiting for a cool change from tomorrow. Unfortunately my Aircon is not working. The techs dragged 3 fried frogs out of the outside system. They apparently shorted out the board and capacitor. So I haven't had AC for 3 weeks now, while we wait for, firstly availability for service, and now replacement parts.

I love green 🐸, but them playing in my AC is a costly exercise. Not sure how I can keep them out though? Any suggestions anybody?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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i cant see your pics yet @Emelia8 hopefully the mods approve them soon. theyre usually much quicker?

its hot here too. 35 degress but thankfully in my new house i have air con. first time in my lifetime my house has aircon lol
can you get some chicken wire to cover the unit? that way they cant squeeze into the system or maybe a natural repellent that you can spray around there to keep them at bay

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RiverSealModerator

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I have approved two photos of a very cute Hannah @Emelia8 so they will be visible to everyone now. RiverSeal

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Sending lots of love @outlander

🩵🩵🩵

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AppleblossomSenior Contributor

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Glad you are home and it is not too hot. @outlander

We are having our cool change.

My son wanted to let the kittens out so they could experience it. Light sprinkle of rain.... One cat darted back inside... The other frolicked a little.

Cheers @Eve7 @Emelia8 @avant-garde @RiverSeal

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Hi dear @outlander

I'm sorry that you had to go to the ED, but I'm glad that you were able to get some help. Hopefully it helps and you can start to feel better.

Hi @Sans911 so nice to see you on here. Hope things have been ok for you.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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ive been back in hospital again @Appleblossom @avant-garde @Emelia8 @Sans911 @Snowie @Eve7

very tired now and just got home after another round of treatment. ill have to get back to my specialists i think soon to try and sort out whats happening.

its still hot here so ive put the aircon back on and will probably sleep with it on tonight. im pretty tired so hoping a decent nights sleep will help finally reset my body
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