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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I can understand that @outlander It's hard when we have lost that passion. Especially when we are just working for the money. To survive.

I will agree, it is so hard to find the passion for things, for anything. What keeps us going? Why are we even here?

Hearing you hon 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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there isnt really a reason for me to be here @Snowie
i am struggling with the fact that i have so much pain throughout my body especially right now.
taken more pain relief in hopes it helps but i also know it wont. how can it when its facing so many pain areas and not just one spot.

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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I've got no answers for you @outlander

I know I don't have the pain so I cannot begin to understand what you are going through and what you have to face daily. But I do know the feeling of really questioning why be here.

Sitting with you hon.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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thanks @Snowie
its hard to keep going alot of the time

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

It is hard @outlander Extremely hard.

Even just a reprieve from our life, to have some time off, to say we want a break.

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tymeModerator

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Hello @Snowie @outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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hey @tyme how are you

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how is everyone today?

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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is anyone around?

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avant-gardeSenior Contributor

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Hey @outlander, how are you doing today

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