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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Lol @Sans911 i shouldnt giggle but i can just imagine your tone as you say the last bit 😏

Hopefully once the infections gone itll heal quicker too. Gosh its been super slow for you. Im glad the nurses will still be coming to help you out fora while longer

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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I did that @outlander to give you a giggle. But my usual tone and way of saying it would be 'and that ain't EVER happening again'!

I've not had a relationship for some time now. Nit bothered by it all. Menopause, surgery and being on ads have robbed of me of any feelings/needs. I rarely think about relationships.

Annnnyway moving along. Yes, coming up 8 months now of open wounds. It has messed with my mh a lot. Robbed me of body confidence when I hoped it might improve it. It's left me depressed and frustrated. I often feel like i should have not done anything at all. I have no timeline for when this is over. I used to, but I give up now. When it's done it's done. The clinic staff all know me very well.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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It really sucks @Sans911 honestly lately ive regretted the dental work. Have had nothing but troubles since i had the teeth taken out, even thr better side get bad every now and then and the nerves are very frustrating. I guess we cant really change things now just have to keep working a way forward

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Im starting to drift abit @Sans911 so will say goodnight to you now sis ❤

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Notifications are lagging again @outlander. I was waiting to hear how you went with your mum. You can tell me in the morning. Goodnight sweet lil Sis 😴😴😴🌞🌞💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Morning @Sans911 💜
Wasnt really any response from mum as to what i should do or the situation. Just an 'ok'

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Morning @outlander - unusual to see you at this time, but good also. I'm not sure how long I'll be here. I'm very, very cold and likely to drop off back to sleep.

Thinking of you @Snowie as you start your new treatment today.

💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

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Re: not coping

Good morning

@outlander 💖🌻💖

@Sans911 💜🚘💜

@Snowie ❤️🌸❤️

@NatureLover 💚🌷💚

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I usually just do a few likes but check in later here, i seen you were up though so popped in earlier.

Im super tired @Sans911 but i have to go to bank and horses abit before 8am.
Need a minute or 10 before trying to get up though


Morning @Former-Member @Lee82 @NatureLover @Snowie @Maggie @Bunniekins and everyone 💜

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Sans911Senior Contributor

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Take care today my sweet lil Sis @outlander. I'm concerned about you. 💕 💕 💕 💕 💕
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